Silence Means More Than You Know





Silence isn’t always a negative thing, but there are many situations where it speaks louder than words—especially for a woman.

She’s deep in thought
She may be thinking about how to refute a point you just made, contemplating her next move or just wondering about what to make for dinner. Just because she doesn’t think aloud doesn’t mean there aren’t a million thoughts running through her mind. She needs silence to make sure they’re in order before going on about her business.

She’s had enough
They say that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. If you’ve managed to make a woman so mad that she’s speechless, you might want to prepare a very well-thought out apology/reason or prepare to run far and quickly. In her mind, she’s probably thinking about the best way to release her anger without completely losing her cool.

She’s content
Happiness doesn’t always need to be announced or made known to others. A woman can simply be pleased with the way her life is panning out and choosing to contain her enjoyment.

She’s savoring the moment
She may be tuning into a song that’s giving her exactly what she needs right now or becoming invested in a gripping movie that has her at the edge of her seat. She may be collecting her thoughts before telling you she loves you or closing her eyes in bliss while listening to the ocean waves. Whatever the sentimental moment, she’ll be silent because she wants to remember it exactly as it’s unfolding.

 I have been through all  these stages.  Know the woman you are with. Know her language. It will go a long way.

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