Heartfelt Holiday Musings: How To Survive that Christmas Break Up

While I wouldn't say that there is an ideal time of year to have a broken heart, I do think that there is one season in particular when it's especially hard to deal with heartache. The holidays aren't particularly kind to those grieving the end of a relationship and can make dealing with your broken heart seem nearly impossible. One of the biggest issues you'll face during the holiday season is how many people you're going to have to deal with.

Parties, family dinners, and gift exchanges galore means that you'll likely bump into people you haven't seen in awhile who want to know how your relationship is going and wondering where your boyfriend is. Awkward! Instead of facing it alone, rally the troops! 

For example, if you'd like to prevent your nosy uncle from barraging you with questions on Christmas Eve, ask your mom or sister if they would tell him in advance that you'd prefer not to talk about it.

 Don't feel embarrassed to use this buffer technique, it's a lot less embarrassing than having your relationship status being discussed at the dinner table.

The New Year is full of optimism, new beginnings and the chance to recreate yourself and your life. Instead of waiting for the first of the year to get excited about your new single life, start now! Make a list of all the things you'd like to do or accomplish in the New Year and get cracking.

You have a lot more free time now that your relationship has ended--step away from the Netflix and use it wisely! Chances are, you might feel a bit uncomfortable being alone at first and that's completely understandable! 

Soon though, you'll begin to realize what amazing company you are and you will even look forward to your dates... with yourself!