Real Signs That The Relationship Will Fail
It's difficult for relationships to survive when one person is working on it all the time.
There's nothing wrong with having a ~textual~ relationship with the person you're dating, but a partner who's reluctant (or downright refuses) to call you on the phone — whether it's to confirm your dinner plans or just see how you're doing — and insists on text messages- might be someone who's only willing to put in the bare minimum effort in the relationship.
Texting can be quick and easy to do with little effort. Not to mention, texting can be a quick escape to avoid having to reply immediately. It could be their way of keeping their distance from you
If you want a healthy relationship, you have to establish trust with your partner — but that can be difficult if you notice that your partner has a habit of being dishonest, no matter how big or small the lie.
Even if it’s a small white lie, it can indicate that they may not always be straight up with you. This can lead you to start questioning what else they could lie about in the future or when they're in a relationship.
Getting defensive and attempting to shout down, go on the attack verbally, and/or dismiss the other's feelings and the validity of what they are attempting to share,
This kind of scenario breaks down into shouting matches, hurtful words being hurled at one another, accusations that are off-base, and silence. If this continues, good will is eroded and intimacy destroyed.
If you're together for long enough, every couple will have moments in their past that cause tension or hurt when they're brought back up. However, healthy partners don't hold grudges: the past is the past, and any problems you worked through are ancient history. It's a red flag if your partner keeps bring something up. When dealing with conflicts, stick to the topic all your past mistakes and arguments in your face every time you argue in the present. Don’t throw in your saved up laundry list of all the things your partner did in the past that angered and disappointed you. Nothing will get resolved!
Finally disrespect of any kind is a no go. Abusive actions are not okay.
If you want a healthy relationship, you have to establish trust with your partner — but that can be difficult if you notice that your partner has a habit of being dishonest, no matter how big or small the lie.
Even if it’s a small white lie, it can indicate that they may not always be straight up with you. This can lead you to start questioning what else they could lie about in the future or when they're in a relationship.
Getting defensive and attempting to shout down, go on the attack verbally, and/or dismiss the other's feelings and the validity of what they are attempting to share,
This kind of scenario breaks down into shouting matches, hurtful words being hurled at one another, accusations that are off-base, and silence. If this continues, good will is eroded and intimacy destroyed.
If you're together for long enough, every couple will have moments in their past that cause tension or hurt when they're brought back up. However, healthy partners don't hold grudges: the past is the past, and any problems you worked through are ancient history. It's a red flag if your partner keeps bring something up. When dealing with conflicts, stick to the topic all your past mistakes and arguments in your face every time you argue in the present. Don’t throw in your saved up laundry list of all the things your partner did in the past that angered and disappointed you. Nothing will get resolved!
Finally disrespect of any kind is a no go. Abusive actions are not okay.
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